For Would-Be Grooms:
Rule.No.1 - Never compare your mamma's cooking with your wife's! There is no
faster way to dig your own grave than that! Please understand that your
mom's cooking has the backing of 20 odd years of experience.. ..don't expect
that from your wife whose hardly into the process! What if she were to
compare your earning capacity with her dad's!!! So shshshhhhh.. ..!!!
Rule.No.2 : Never go out of your way to please the lady with flowers,
chocolates and gifts during your engagement period. If ever you do , please
follow it up post-wedding too! When you could cover 20kms in 15 minutes when
you are engaged just to spend some time with her, how dare you forget her
birthday post - marriage, even after you are given the broadest of hints by
her!
Remember expectations always double...ever heard of them being halved???
Rule.No.3: Do compliment her every now and then, verbally or with gifts!
What are those lovely Teddies and Archies gift cards for? Don't sit there
like the Lord Of The Rings expecting to be waited upon! Of course she will
do it but everyone likes to be appreciated and pampered!!!!
Rule.No.4: This is very important! Sulking or complaining about marriage
being a big mistake is a strict NO -NO!! You got into it with your eyes wide
open, brimming with enthusiasm!! No one ever pushed you into it! So why this
drama now!
Rule.No.5: Be Brave and take your own decisions and stand up by them!!
Consult your parents for advice but realise that you are grown up enough to
lead your life! Respect your partner's views at all times! Remember she has
given up a lot more to make a life with you!!
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